"If I gotta tell you how to love me,

Then the love isn't natural,

If I gotta show you, then it isn't as beautiful,

Should I let you go or stick around with my fingers crossed

And wait, wait, wait, wait…"

This is currently one of my favorite songs: Wait by J Minor

And it really has got me thinking…

We all have ideas of how love should be or how we would want it to be…

For some us these serve as standards and for others they're merely desires,

But either way, I don't think it's something to give up on.